My favorite place to be was on the couch, with my head on his chest. I felt safe there, protected. Turns out he hated that position, my head blocked the television for him. Maybe had I known that, a lot of other things would have been clearer sooner. Do you think it's wrong to add that to the list of things to find out on a first date for now on? Do you enjoy family? Do you want marriage and children? Will you let me feel safe in whatever way needed?